For your life
You don't run a company. You still run a lot.
Appointments, bills, forms, the trip you keep meaning to book, the messages you're behind on.
Here is everything a Tidara assistant can carry — by text, in your own words, on a machine
that belongs to you.
No app to learn · Works by text · Your life stays yours
What it can do
The admin of being a person.
None of it is hard. All of it is relentless. Every assistant is built to order, so you take what's useful and leave the rest.
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Time and commitments
- Books, moves and confirms appointments
- Tells you what today actually needs, before you ask
- Warns you about renewals, deadlines and expiries in time to act
- Keeps one calendar the whole household can see
- Spots clashes, and the travel time you forgot to allow for
- Remembers birthdays early enough to be useful
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Paperwork and records
- Photograph a bill, policy, warranty or form — it reads it and files it
- Finds it again months later when you ask in plain words
- Tracks what's due, and what's already been paid
- Keeps receipts, statements and confirmations where they belong
- Flags when a number doesn't look like it should
- Turns a photographed document into something searchable
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Messages and email — entirely optional
- Watches only the accounts you point it at, and nothing else
- Surfaces the handful that genuinely need you
- Drafts the replies in your own words, ready to send
- Catches the deadline buried three emails down
- Nothing sends without your yes
- Never on unless you ask for it, and off again whenever you like
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Home and family
- Lists that stay useful — shopping, packing, jobs round the house
- Who needs to be where, and who's taking them
- School forms, permission slips, activity schedules
- Chases the tradesman who never called back
- Tracks what the house needs and when it was last done
- Holds a parent's appointments and paperwork alongside your own
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Trips and plans
- Researches, then drafts a real itinerary rather than a list of links
- Keeps every booking and confirmation in one place
- Learns how you actually like to travel, and applies it next time
- Packing lists that remember what you forgot last time
- Handles the admin around a trip, not just the booking
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A memory that doesn't reset
- Every decision, preference and promise, kept
- Ask in June what you agreed in March, and get it back with the date
- Knows what you already decided, so you don't go round again
- Builds on what it knows instead of starting fresh each time
- More useful in month six than it was on day one
And you talk to it however suits you
Nothing to open, log into or learn. It's a thread in the app you already use.
⌨️Type it
🎤Say it — voice notes
📷Photograph it
📎Forward it
🕐Any hour you like
Just as important
And the things it will never do.
A list of capabilities is only half the picture. These are the limits — built in, rather than promised.
- Send, post or reply to anyone without your approval
- Look at any account you haven't pointed it at
- Listen to your microphone — it has no ears, only what you send it
- Share, sell or pool your information with anybody
- Become training data for someone else's AI
- Pretend to know something when it doesn't — it says so instead
A normal week
It runs on a cadence.
You don't have to remember to use it. That's the point.
Morning
What today needs
What's on, who's where, what's due — and anything that came in overnight worth knowing about.
Through the day
As it happens
Text it a photo of a bill, a voice note about a booking, a question about that thing last spring.
Evening
Tomorrow, prepped
What's coming, what slipped, and the two replies waiting for a yes from you.
Weekly
Nothing quietly rotting
Renewals coming up, forms not sent, the appointment nobody has actually booked yet.
In practice
What that looks like for two people.
Composite examples from real Tidara builds — people's private lives stay private, which is rather the point.
Working parent
Two kids, two jobs, one calendar nobody owns
School letters arrived as photographs in a group chat and were never seen again. Half the household ran on one person's memory, and that person was tired.
What the assistant does: every form, letter and permission slip gets photographed in and filed against the right child and date. It says what's due this week, and drafts the reply to the school for approval.
The mental load stopped living in one person's head.
Caring for a parent
Managing someone else's admin as well as your own
Two sets of appointments, two sets of paperwork, and consultants who each assumed someone else was coordinating.
What the assistant does: keeps both timelines, files every letter and result where it can be found again, and flags what needs chasing — with the whole history to hand when a call comes.
Turning up to appointments already knowing the story.
▶ Or watch a whole week play out
The part that matters most
This is your life. It stays yours.
Handing an assistant your family's calendar and your paperwork is a bigger ask than handing it your invoices. We built for that.
Private by construction
Nothing leaks out.
Your assistant runs on a server that belongs to you alone. Your family's details aren't pooled with anyone else's and never become training data for someone else's AI.
Nothing reaches anyone — not a reply, not a booking, not a message — unless you read it and say yes.
- Your own server, not a shared one
- You choose what it can see
- Every action logged where you can check it
Built around your life
Nothing has to change.
No app to install, no system to adopt, nothing to migrate. It arrives in the messaging app you already use and works from there.
And it gets to know you. What you prefer, how you word things, what you always forget. It's more useful in month six than it was on day one.
- Works by text — nothing new to learn
- Learns your voice and your preferences
- Delete any of it whenever you want
How the privacy actually works →
Want one for your life?
Tell it what you're behind on. The fastest way to understand this is to have the conversation.
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